Life changes for the better, liberation, and trimming the fat of life

Here’s the nutshell of an update, since I haven’t updated in so long:

This summer was a whirlwind of absolute, extreme joy, tempered with some who have tried (most in vain) to dampen our spirits. Some great, some sad, some pathetic, some long overdue. Certain names and events have been changed in order to preserve anonymity, even though they definitely don’t deserve it. That’s all I’m going to say about this for now. God knows I wouldn’t want to step on anyone’s terribly misplaced senses of pride, unwarranted ego’s, “friendship,” or irrational sense of entitlement. You know who you all are.

In more positive news my little boys are doing great. They have grown so much this past summer! All their clothes are having to be replaced because they no longer fit. They’re eating more, sleeping more, and are just turning into the best little young men, ever! I love them more every single day.

The natural process of life is to live and learn…and, in my humble opinion, to purge those who drag you down and/or make relationships petty and conditional, be it family, friends, co-workers etc., you get the idea. I my 39th year, I have a feeling that this little mantra of mine will be put to the test. So be it. You can please some people some of the time, but some of those people you can please none of the time (that’s my little interpretation of that cliche’). To the latter of those people, good riddance.

Keep in mind, I have used NO names in this blog entry. Therefore, if you have a guilty conscience…you probably deserve one. And if this is the case, then this entry is definitely directed right…at…you.

It’s time to make some changes – and I can’t wait to continue the simplifying of my life. It’s liberating!

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The Summer of 2012

Wow, this summer has passed by SO fast! Weather-wise, I’m not complaining, though. It’s been SO hot in Denver this season. We have had something like 60 days of 90+ degree temperatures so far. That’s just unheard of here in the Rockies. It topped out at around 105 or something near that. So, so hot this year. Long gone are the days of the past, when the temperature would hover around the upper 80′s, then we would get a nice rain shower every single afternoon that would cool everything off, and it would get nice a sunny/cooler for the rest of the afternoon, into the evening. Ahh, those were the days. So, this summer has been quite busy for the Farrell family – all things considered anyway. It started out rather slow, days being filled with video games, playing outside, and asking when lunch will be served. But then after it began to get just too hot to venture out, without risking heat stroke, things had to get a little more creative. Every summer, I sign the boys up for a free bowling club at the local bowling alley. This is cool, because every week I get an email, with vouchers good for the entire week, where they can bowl two free games every day of the week. So we have gone bowling a few times – the boys love it. Once July hit, the boys got to go visit their nanna, poppy, aunt, and uncle in Florida! After they got there, they went to Legoland, a Marlin’s baseball game, countless pools, the Vero Beach timeshare, and the beach. Rough life, eh?! I’m so glad they went, and so glad that the 9 days they were gone went by so quickly (for me anyway). I have to tell the truth, I was very, very stressed over them being gone so long. That was the longest we have ever been apart from each other. But Kathy and I got through it. We filled our time by ourselves by doing lots of romantic things like going to dinner together, drinking wine, and just relishing the deafening silence in the house…for a while anyway. It’s strange – as a parent, you always want peace and quiet when you children are home…but when they are away, you miss that dull roar like you wouldn’t believe!

So, after they returned from Florida, we let them rest for a few days before heading off for a small family vacation within our beautiful state of Colorado. We drove down to Colorado Springs and got a hotel room for three nights. This became our “home base” of sorts, from where we would get up and drive to different locations for our day trips. The first place we went was up and around the back of Pikes Peak – to see where my father was laid to rest some 14 years ago. I had not been there in those 14 years, because I was afraid to feel the emotions that I knew were inevitable. It took a little research to find the place, but once I was pretty certain I knew where it was, off we went. Once on the highway to get there, it was very, VERY strange because I just knew where we needed to go without really looking at the map very much. I knew that we had to make a certain left turn off of the highway, I knew that we had to go on a dirt road, I knew that the place was at the top of a large hill…then once we got to the actual grave yard, I knew by instinct where I needed to go. After about 10 minutes of looking in what I was sure was the correct area, I was able to find my father’s headstone. It is just a small plaque, placed in the ground at the base of three beautiful trees. When I approached the area, it was completely covered and, again, I instinctively began brushing aside the dirt and leaves before revealing the plaque. This took my breath away for a moment. I thought I was prepared to see it, but I couldn’t contain myself once I did. We stayed for a few minutes, took some pictures and I told my boys about their grandpa, and what a wonderful man he was. One of my biggest regrets in life is that he never got to meet his grandsons. He would have been so proud of them, and I hope, of me as well. It was a hard trip/visit, because I don’t handle things like that very well, but I’m definitely glad I did it. I sure do miss my father.

Ok, enough of that. So the day after visiting dad, we decided to drive down to Canon City, CO to visit the Royal Gorge. This is one of the wonders of the world. It’s the highest suspension bridge in the US, and one of the highest in the world. Something like 1,200 to 1,300 feet, straight down. There’s a number of cool little attractions that are in the same spot too, so there’s more than just the bridge to see. The main thing to do, however, is to walk across the bridge itself. Now, if you know me, you know that I have a paralyzing fear of heights. So, by default, this is not exactly a fun time for me, walking across this bridge. Add to that the wind that whips through the canyon causing the bridge to sway, the *wooden* slats that comprise the bridge floor (complete with sometimes large gaps between the boards, so I can see how far down my doom would be), and the fact that it is legal for cars and trucks to actually drive across the bridge while pedestrians are walking on it…well, you can begin to understand my building anxiety. I walked across the bridge and back again…but I can tell you that I was not happy about it! Yes, I’m a wuss, but I’m okay with that. But after back on solid ground, I was definitely glad that my boys and Kathy were able to experience the Gorge. If you’re ever in Colorado, you simply must visit there. It’s something you’ll never forget.

The next day we were still a little tired from all the walking of the previous day, but decided that since we were down in the Springs, we were determined to make the most of our time there! So off we went to the Cave of the Winds. This is a HUGE network of large and then very small caves and tunnels that go way back into the side of the mountain. It’s a neat thing to do, and again, if you’re ever in Colorado Springs, you must go. The tour lasted about an hour, and we saw some of the most beautiful cave formations that exist in the world today.

Each day on our vacation ended with the obligatory trip to the hotel pool/hot tub! My boys LOVE to go swimming. I remember being the same way. We probably could have had a successful vacation in their eyes, by just going to a hotel and letting them swim all day! They are little fish, I swear.

One of the evenings we were down there, we got to meet up with some of our oldest and best friends, Amy and Axel! We went out and had cheap appetizers and beers, while talking about the old days. It was really fun to see them.

So all-in-all, it has been a great summer for my little family! It’s always a challenge to keep the kiddos entertained, especially while attempting to stick to a budget! But, we were able to do just that, and I think they had a great vacation. School starts back up on the 27th of this month, and with it comes early mornings, homework, and more of a regimented schedule.

Fall is coming and I couldn’t be happier about that. I hope we have a long, super-snowy winter this year. We got robbed last year in that department, so we’re definitely due for a good one!

Sorry it’s been so long since my last update on this, but I was having some computer issues that I was finally able to fix (on my own, nonetheless!) – so now I should be able to get on my neat little blog and update you all on the minutia of my life, and all the exciting things I do…or don’t do, as the case may be!

That’s all for now. Thanks for reading. Be sure to leave your comments, and I’ll be updating soon! Peace.

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Stupid laptop keys and post-football depression

Hey, what do you know…my “o” “t” and “y” buttons work (for n0w) on my laptop!!! I swear, this thing is so tempermental, it drives me nuts. If I have to take in this laptop to get it fixed, again, I’m going to freak out. Down-time and computers drive me nuckin’ futs. Especially when it’s still so young, all things considered.

Spoke too soon…they’re crapping out on me again. F&*K! If anyone of you out there in cyber-land knows how to fix an ailing keyboard that is apparently not recognized by the motherboard – by all means give me a shout.

I’m going to end this blog before I tempt fate any longer with these God-forsaken keys. I hope you all have a great Sunday (even though there’s no football on :( :( sniff, sniff). Yes, I get depressed when football season is over. Deal with it. Baseball and basketball just don’t do if for me, either. Sigh…here’s waiting for next fall…my favorite season of all.

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Korn, KoRn, and KORN concert!!

What a great Korn show tonight! No matter how many times I see those guys perform, it’s never enough for me. They put on one of THE best live shows in the business – period. The started out playing three or four tunes from the very first cd (which was very cool!), then proceeded into their two newest hits, “Narcissistic Cannibal” and “Get Up.” These two are on their new, dubstep-infused album named the Path of Totality. It was great to see the new generation of Korn fans, whipping it up to these two news songs, as well as the others on the newest cd. Makes me feel old when Korn is playing a song that I’ve known for years, that these kids have never even heard! How cool for a band like that though?! To be that timeless, that relevant after all these years. Still kicking major ass after all these years. It’s a cool thing to take in. Went to the show with my brother, Denny, his girlfriend, Christina, and me and my wife’s friend, Lindsay. Good company just made the great music even more fun. Although it’s pretty taxing on my messed up back, standing for hours on end – I wouldn’t miss it for the world. One of my favorite bands, hanging with my bro and friends…very nice indeed!

That’s all for now, just my little synopsis of the best show so far of 2012! I can’t wait to see them the next time they’re in town, either! You can be sure, I’ll be there. May be in a wheelchair, but I’ll be there! Ok, maybe just a walker, or cane…not a wheelchair!

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Blooming Badges

is blossoming! I’m so proud of Kathy for doing this. We even have another new retailer, Cake Crafts! We’ve been having the unique problem of not having enough badge reels as of late, so I found a company via eBay, and now we can order the reels in bulk which is nice. The March of Dime’s, March for Babies, is coming up on April 28th, and we’re in the process of doing our best to market to it. There are going to be sign-up tables at Kathy’s hospital in the coming weeks, and we’re going to be selling the badges there as well. In addition, we now have the capability of taking credit and debit cards as a method of payment! This is an important new development, especially in this day and age when hardly anyone uses cash anymore. Being able to accept credit cards as payment opens up a whole new section of the market for us!

I’ve already griped about this, but here it goes again. My stupid laptop is on the fritz again. This time there are several keys on the keyboard that are not registering. I don’t even know what to do about it, other than trying to spray them out with compressed air. If that doesn’t work, I have to take it back to the Geek Squad at Best Buy (again), and have them see if it’s still under warranty. This will be the third time I’ve had to have it sent off for surgery since I got it – only about a year and a half ago. Unbelievable. I’m so tempted to just migrate to a Macbook for my next laptop, but they are SO expensive. We’re talking about double or triple the amount that I’d pay for another regular laptop. I’ll update my blog when I have updated information on this ordeal. I know you’re all waiting with baited breath!

Currently reading “The Hunger Games.” It’s a fascinating book. I won’t spoil it for anyone, but I do recommend it! There are two sequels and a movie (coming soon) too.

That’s it for now. Thank God for my iPad and my little bluetooth keyboard. Without them, I’d be technologically dead in the water right now.

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Answered prayer on Valentines Day 2012

Today I had a nearly year-old prayer answered. I’m speechless in a good way. This is unbelievable good news, and I am moved that it has happened. This gives my family another chance.

There’s not much more to update today than this is a great Valentines Day! I love my family, and I’m looking forward to the future!

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Blooming Badges!

Kathy’s all finished with working nights. She’s such a hard worker. She’s been selling her “Blooming Badges” like hot cakes lately! The business is officially an LLC, we’ve purchased the URL and are currently in the process of creating the site. It’s neat to see how excited she gets about doing these too. If you’re interested in buying one, go to Facebook.com and look up Blooming Badges. They’re only $5 and a portion of the sales goes directly to the March of Dimes! So this business is still small, but it’s getting bigger by the day. Please help us to spread the word, too!

That’s pretty much all I wanted to say. Not really an update here, but I did want to get the word out some more about Blooming Badges! If anyone has any questions, or would like to place a special order for one, let us know!

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